Common Myths and Misconceptions in Family Law

Join Penningtons Lawyers for a session debunking family law myths in England, clearing confusion around children, finances and divorce.

Family law in England is frequently misunderstood. Persistent myths around children, finances and divorce can create unnecessary stress, fuel conflict and lead to poor decision-making, particularly at the point of separation or relationship breakdown.

This session will address some of the most common misconceptions in family law and explain how the law is applied in practice. By distinguishing fact from fiction, the CPD aims to equip practitioners in supporting parents and separating couples with clear, accurate information, enabling them to make informed choices that prioritise both their own wellbeing and the best interests of their children.

The presentation will also consider the role of neurodivergence within relationships, exploring how it can shape relationship dynamics, communication styles and engagement with legal processes.

Key Learning Outcomes from This CPD

• The reality behind the concept of “common law marriage” in England
• The legal status and enforceability of prenuptial agreements
• Whether behaviour or “fault” has any bearing on financial settlements in divorce
• When court proceedings are necessary in disputes involving children or finances, and how children’s voices can be appropriately and sensitively included
• Whether separating couples must always instruct separate legal advisers

This session will also explore neurodivergence in couples including:

• Indicators of neurodivergence within couples, particularly where it may be undiagnosed
• The impact of neurodivergence on communication, conflict and relationship dynamics
• Practical strategies and supportive approaches when neurodivergence is a relevant factor

Presenters:

Penningtons is a leading UK law firm with extensive expertise in family law, including divorce, child arrangements and financial settlements. Their team provides clear, practical guidance to help clients navigate complex family issues with confidence.

Natalie McIvor is a qualified counsellor and psychotherapist, specialising in attachment‑based work, trauma and relationship issues. She integrates somatic alignment and trauma‑informed approaches to help clients explore underlying patterns that affect how they relate to themselves and others. Natalie has a focused interest in neurodiversity, working with clients to create an inclusive therapeutic space tailored to individual needs.